How do I create belief before evidence?

Trust.

We Indian professionals have goals. We get good grades, we achieve, we get to our goals. It’s as good as done when we start school or training.

My clients say they need to be able to see the accomplishment and the end goal before having the confidence to get to the goal.

Ummmm….

Bull shit.

No future evidence required. It’s non existent anyway.

We all believed we’d be in the position/business we are in now before it was guaranteed.

Off to med school, I’ll be a doctor. Off to law school, I’ll be a lawyer. Off to B school, own a business. Off to leadership training, I’ll be a leader. Off to coaching school, I’ll be a coach. We believe and know that it’s as good as done from day 1 of school. And it’s done. Nobody guaranteed the result. We believed and TRUSTED our belief, and we got to the result.

So now we got all that done, and we’re trying to sell ourselves on the loud ass thought from the brain that we need evidence of the accomplishment from the future to create confidence today.

OMG after all our accomplishments, why do our brains want us to believe we need evidence from the future?

Fine.

We want evidence.

So let’s feed ourselves the evidence that

all our lives we believed,

and we trusted our beliefs that we would get to our goals.

We didn’t have evidence from the future.

None.

I dare us to believe what that pesky voice is saying. That voice that won’t shut up inside of us. It’s saying again and again, get the joy back in the relationship with yourself and your parents.

We can buy into the belief that what we believe is as good as done.

The trust in our belief is in there.

Find trust.

Buy trust.

Trust in you.

We have beliefs that guide us.

We trust beliefs.

We get joy back.

Joy in the time we spend with ourselves.

Joy in the time we spend with our parents.

While there’s still time.

Why delay this goal of joy?

Why?

Get it.

Immediately.

Because it’s kind of awesome to trust in our beliefs, to have joy in the time we spend with ourselves, AND in time we spend with our parents.

Indian professionals

-We believe and then

-We can TRUST our belief

-That the ultimate goal

-Is this

-Joy in the time we get with us

-Joy in the time we get with our parents.

I believe this for us

I will let you borrow my belief in us

Until it is your belief too

And I can help you trust that belief

No evidence from the future required

Come freakin work with me because the ride from here to trust is EVERYTHING

OMG it’s so good and I can’t wait for you to get it!

Trust in you.

Trust in your belief.

Trust that joy is the ultimate goal!